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Shenaya accompanied me for 2 weeks to the topic of Self-Care. Because of that I had to write the article A lot going on here. With a healthy sense of self-care I could take a break, before it would turn (again) in a burnout.

Why Self-care, what is so important about it

In our very hectic and challenging society we often forget to think about ourselves.

This leads to total exhaustion, our batteries are empty and we are in function mode. From that it is only a short step to discontent and can get worse till you are depressed or burned out.

Be mindful about Self-care

First pay attention to your basic needs:

  • enough sleep (without a break)
  • healthy food, enough to eat, drink enough water, enjoy a lovely day
  • go for a walk to get some exercise. The focus should be on relaxing during a walk without fulfilling any purpose. Then it is more of a meditation that will make you even feel better about yourself
Your day is filled with activities, where does Self-care fit?
  • please make appointments for you where you can deal with yourself. Yes, I mean, put these in your calendar
  • When you are exhausted, it does not help anyone. You may be more likely to react harshly than lovingly. The kids do not care if it's messy, so take your time and sit down with a cop of tea or coffee and just stare in front of you.
  • Get rituals: Go to bed at a certain time, get up at a certain time, take your time for a nap or afternoon coffee (usually my matcha latte will be served at 2:30 pm)
Other things to take care of you:
  • Write down what you did today. Self-esteem is an important step towards self-care. After the hundredth empty dishwasher, the countless washing machines, the dusting, the high pile of ironing and the other everyday things you can allow yourself to say: I've done that, I've done a good job
  •  We are just in the run-up to Christmas: make you a plan how you can feed the important things for you in the days. For example, Buy gifts, bake cakes, bake cookies, etc. See if it gives you pleasure: Otherwise, let it stay. Maybe online shopping is more relaxed for you? And then write in the evening in your journal what you have done today everything. No matter how much it is. You will notice, you write a lot, things that you otherwise do by the way are now clear
  • End time: Every day at a certain time it is over with the work in the home, shopping on the Internet, possibly even a digital break. Do things that make you happy. I have just completed two Christmas Stockings for my grandchildren. It was relaxing while watching TV, was a lot faster than I thought, and was a lot of fun. Look for such activities to recharge the batteries.
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Kerstin Ajasha and the Crystal Skulls

At the moment there is a lot going on here. Not only that we are in pre-christmas mode. I also have sometimes the feeling to be stuck.

Practically I can only move forward when I let go. This happens all the time, the more we let go, the more we experience change.

Also my Hessonite Hogwart holds me in his "hands", he let's me believe in my magic within me as well as working on it.

For everything else I am planning nothing (anymore). As far as it possible in this time quality. At least doing less and only what makes me happy and then go with the flow.

The last weekend I received an amazing reading. The spirits told me that I have decided to learn more than I already have.

For that I have to tell you what happened during the summer.

While I received a healing treatment, the guy asked me if I am an unborn twin. When we have an unborn twin in our field, we don't feel complete. The experts for this topics could explain it more deeply.

But to be brief: I wanted to know more and also wanted to release this. As an Aries no wonder, is a natural reaction. I found a lady who helped me through the process during a soul journey. She re-connected me with my original plans for this incarnation. At the end my soul told me, that I learned and achieved everything I wanted. What a relief.

Back to this month

The message from my soul this summer gave me relief and helped me to calm down.

But then I was starting to get restless. And this Saturday I received the message that I wanted to learn more, different things.


I am allowed to rest, to meditate, connect with my skullies and plan my development slowly. Which also includes the change of my website as well as my spiritual development. That can more easily happen through rest and meditation and downloads than through new educations.

You see, the daily challenges and the challenges from the soul are not always the same. It is more important what the soul wants and to accept the changes that come from the soul.

To grow and be stronger

That means, I can relax, let happen what is allowed to happen. Is something not finished by the end of 2018 it will be there for me in 2019.

At the end it means: to visit as less activities as possible, to do happy stuff like being creative with baking and crafting. And everything that doesn't work out even when I try it can stay as it is.

That is called Self-care.

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All the love

Kerstin Ajasha and the Crystal Skulls

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