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This topic covers a wide spectrum, it is about resonance, our learning tasks and the mirror law. Each a piece to look at and yet together.

Learning tasks

Those are the tasks I have chosen as a soul for this incarnation. For that, before I was born into this incarnation, I made an exact plan, my soul plan.

To make the experiences I want to do make during this incarnation. For example, to learn to value myself more, to learn self-love, to dissolve karma, to work with crystal skulls, to experience many other emotions, especially sadness, joy, fear and anger.

In order to achieve this I have chosen exactly to which minute on which day I would like to be born in which family.

And all the other souls who are playing a role in my life or who are going to play a role, they know at the soul level that this is true.

And then we descend into duality. The all-embracing love of the soul family is no longer noticeable.

We are born and develop. Partly through our role models aka parents (because we chose them to learn something), partly through friends, teachers, acquaintances, family members (also: we agreed with these souls that they will be in our lives)


Sometimes we despair because we meet people who push certain buttons and force us to deal with a topic. Although we may not want it.

Then we become angry or sad or aggressive. Don't understand why such people come into our lives again and again. People who wants to manipulate us, who wants to influence us, so we become the person they wants us to be, who wants to force us to perfectionism, although we do not care u.v.m.

The reactions that these people trigger in us, we should definitely take seriously. Because they show us that there is a learning topic. A topic that should be looked at and resolved by us.

Attention: this only applies if these persons actually triggers us! So we are really going into deep emotions and misunderstanding that are triggered in us. If we have already completed our learning topic we see what is happening out there (for example, people being manipulated) but it does not touch us anymore.

Understand what happens

Suppose that there is a situation in which you have the feeling that people manipulate you. The mirror law would say in the first approach that you are one of the people manipulating the other. But it goes on and it is important to me that you understand that the mirror law scratch more than just on the surface.

Here are a few questions you can ask yourself if you have the feeling that you should be manipulated:

  • do I manipulate others?
  • do I let myself be manipulated again and again, what does that do to me? (Anger, desperation, powerlessness, helplessness, wanting to be perfect)
  • What could be the cause (in this life, from a previous life)?
  • What can I do to learn from this situation (because my counterpart, my trigger person should help me to understand)? e.g. May I learn that I have the power over my life and no one else? That I may be imperfect?

And only if I understand it in all depth with all emotions I may solve the topic.

But this person is still in my life! What now!

If you have mastered the task then you can surround it with love. E.g. do a forgiveness ritual for the person who triggered you, pushed your button(s) all the way. Be grateful that this person came into your life and helped you to solve this topic.

And then forgive yourself that you have brought this person into your life and thus have created this situation that has made you so angry and aggressive. The Hawaiian forgiveness ritual Ho'oponopono can help you with that.

The topic of resonance is almost superficially described here. If you are on a threshold and need help on the topic then book a coaching with me so we can dissolve the topic deeply.

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All the love for you

Kerstin Ajasha and the Crystal Skulls

A burning question, right?

Just take it out of the box and go?

If it were that easy!

It's best to take them as quickly as possible and as carefully as possible (usually the cuties are so packed with tape, etc. that you do not have to be careful) Mine are mostly very exhausted (see photo) because the have been gone through an infinite number of hands, the whole journey wrapped and packed. How nice that these two were allowed to travel together, after all, they have been 5 1/2 weeks on the way. There were some disagreements and we actually had to do energetic and physical work to get the package out of the sinking again. In the meantime, it was even said that it should go back to the sender.

One morning I got the impulse again to check the tracking information and actually got the message from the post office (here in the US is the USPS) that the package has already arrived at the post office. At some point I had this feeling of dressing myself. The postal car already in the neighborhood on the way. Then the feeling to look on the porch, the package could already be there. What should I say: opened the door, postal car pulles forward and the postman has the package in hand. YEAH !!! So the two quickly unpacked and then we started the cleaning procedure.

Then bath in a lukewarm amethyst bath. Amethyst has the property to clean itself and is therefore ideally suited (if you have a crystal that does not tolerate water, please skip this section or place it on an amethyst gland)

After some time (perhaps 30 minutes in this case) I followed the impulse of drying. Now they looked much better:

But that is not the end of the process. Now it is time to energize. I have often read about how other skulls are charged / energized by skulls. I'm not a friend of that. M. E. Skulls are individuals that do not need to reflect the energies of each other's skulls. Therefore, I skip this point. Energizing other major skulls works by putting together the New Skull and the main skull. Then you bought an already energized skull (at least in the rule)

At some point I wrote a light language grid. How light language of Mayas / Mexican Curanderas works I describe in another blog post . This light language grid has been written for the energetic cleansing and energizing of the crystal skulls, dragons, Merlin, unicorns and all other crystals and works great. Just put your skull on this grid and then wait. Usually you can see the change after a few minutes. One of my skulls for sale was on the shelf in the shop and was very unhappy. He was really "bleak". We quickly found out that the light language grid I had provided was no longer under the shelf and therefore the energizing / energetic cleaning no longer took place. After quickly fixing that problem a few minutes later he looked much happier.

You can download the Light Language Grid on my blog and print it in any size / number: Downloads and Services and also the Detoxing-Energy and Dimensional Energy. Free!! It is important to me that this lighting language Grid is available in as many houses as possible.

Not sure if the grid is for you? Ask your crystal skull if he / she wants to sit on it. I've found. that this is the simplest option.

After the crystal skull is energized, he / she is ready for you and a first meditation or getting to know each other.

Take your time, find yourself a quiet place or take a little nap with your new family member. Other crystal skull caretakers recommend to contact only with one crystal skull at a time to get to know the energy. That's a good idea and I would think so in the beginning. At least if it feels right. Couples travel to me as well, so it can happen that both want to join. Nevertheless, I greet each one individually.

Let the energy work, do not rush anything. Hold the crystal skull on your heart chakra and welcome it in your life. Perhaps you would like to thank the crystal skull for taking the journey to you. (I'll definitely do this with my two newcomers) and then enjoy the energies first.

After a while, your crystal skull will speak, this time may take longer, please be patient. I've heard from keepers over and over again that the skulls are not talking to them and they were worried that the skull in question did not want to go to them but continue traveling. I am quite sure that the skulls would speak accordingly, so do not worry. Sometimes they only work in the background or it takes a colleague to "thaw" them. I have e.g. a Labradorite, Moosy who has been with me for years. But since the new skull Thorwald, a lava skull, has surfaced here, Moosy thaws up and also wants to participate in the action.

And so it will go on slowly with the two rams. I will report on the two in detail in my article about the ram-skulls.

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All the love for you

Kerstin Ajasha and the Crystal Skulls

The question of whether I need a crystal skull as the main skull I had asked me right at the beginning and I can only partially answer.

When I started welcoming crystal skulls to my family, I thought that the first Crystal Skull was the main skull. Forever! After more than a year, Lobos has come to me and has introduced himself as my main skull. Aaron-Ku-Nah, my first crystal skull, just sighed and said: At last she got it.

Lobos is my main skull for a long time, together with Cosima who represents him so to speak when I'm traveling with him. Except she is there too. Then the cuties settle this already under themselves, grins.

In addition, I always have a current herd. That's why I call it that because it's usually a special group that's been on the dates for quite some time. A good year ago, for example, Iyesha, Merlin, Ash'a'ya, Lobos and Cosima.

So what is a main skull?

I would say from the feeling that a main skull, so to speak, has the troops under control. More dominant. To be regarded as a very reliable companion, sets the tone. Stands in the middle and observes, gives suggestions, if I do not know how to continue. It just stands out more than the other skulls.

Since November 2017, it is my feeling there are four skulls that always attract attention and are the main skulls. The feeling is different than in a herd. In a herd, it varies faster. But these four are working very hard at the moment, more present than ususal. I have to say that I work very emotionally and on the "I know" level. These are my strongest perception senses.

Cosima (self-love), Lobos (trust, to open up and release emotions), Shenaya (give love and strengthen dreams), Jesparian (release, solve karma, dissolve traumata)

This constellation has opened up during my spiritual burnout. I have the feeling that my decision to close the business or to reorient my business had a strong influence on it. Just as I feel that this is not the end. Rather, that still a big skull finds its way here. One that belongs to the older or even ancient skulls. Which I will report of course.


A main skull is not necessarily the first skull that arrives with me. In addition, I resonate more with him / her, he / she is also very present. More present than the other skulls. Most of the time he / she is everywhere. If this skull remains for ever the main skull is not to say with certainty, that can change.

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All the love for you

Kerstin Ajasha and the Crystal Skulls

Tarot and Astrology

Ruled by the planets, Mercury, Venus and Uranus, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius make up the Air Signs of the Zodiac. Known for their energy and quick minds, they are the most communicative, intellectual and sociable signs of the zodiac. They can be sharp as a tack, with razor like minds. They can however appear aloof and unemotional at times.

Gemini – Chatty and intellectual but have a tendency to live on their nerves. Easily bored, they are naturally inquisitive and curious. Their dual nature can be problematic, especially in love.  They have excellent communication skills and very witty.

Libra – Diplomatic and romantic. They hate to be alone and love to be appreciated (overly so). They can be very indecisive and too laid back at times. They make great friends but do expect a lot in return.

Aquarius – Independent, aloof/friendly, cool and calm in a crisis. They are intensely private and can appear sometimes appear unapproachable. They are strong humanitarians, but can be emotionally withdrawn. They have a tendency towards eccentricity.

The Air Signs are represented in the Tarot as follows:

Gemini – Knight of Swords (Also the King of Pentacles), The Lovers

Libra – Queen of Swords (Queen of Pentacles), The Empress, Justice

Aquarius – King of Swords, The Star

The Page of Swords can represent any of the Air Signs but if the person is over the age of 22 years then they are bound to be showing signs of immaturity. They may also be feeling young at heart.  The Page can also be a representation of their childhood.

Remember these are just guidelines, and the Air/Sword Court Cards can represent any of the 12 Signs. However the person represented, be they a Taurean, Leo or Cancarian, will be displaying personality traits or aspects of the Air Element/Signs.  Once the profile fits, regardless of the person being a Capricorn or Piscean, they will obviously have a lot of Air in their personality make-up.  This display of Air may be transient or fixed.


The element of Air has an intellectual idealism attached to it of course -- and sometimes also a highbrow superiority complex. Regardless, this is the element that is able to achieve a mental sharpness like no other.

When you think about air you immediately realize a few things. Air is invisible, it cannot be enclosed and it is changeable. Air can be a calm balmy breeze or a ferocious wind storm, but either way, there’s a sense of detachment about it along with an ability to cover extensive ground. Again, let’s apply this astrologically...

Breezy traits

Air signs are known for being more detached and cerebral than others. Air signs aren’t overly emotional, which gives them the ability to think logically and to achieve a broad overview of their idea. Air signs also require extensive freedom of movement in order to express their ideas and individuality. You can never contain an Air sign!

The element of Air is detached from the immediate experience of daily life -- never quite touching it -- but always flowing around it. This detachment gives air its hallmark ability to be objective and to use its gifts to benefit many.

Ironically, although the element of Air has little emotion or sensitivity, it is the most social element. How is this possible? Air has the ability to objectively appreciate anyone or any group’s thoughts whether or not they agree with them.

The downside of Air is that occasionally, if air remains all "in their head" there’s a chance that it can become mentally imbalanced. That’s when you’ll see an eccentric Air side. If Air overvalues intellect it can become difficult to live in our physical world.

Broken down by sign...

Although the three Air signs Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, share many of these traits in common, each will express the element’s qualities in a unique way.

Gemini will manifest the element of Air as an acute ability to instantly notice and communicate about everything in its environment.

Libra will apply the element of Air as a drive to use its intellect in a way that promotes social harmony.

Aquarius will utilize the element of air to achieve the most remarkably detached ability to connect all people and every concept.

Feng ShuiAbout Wind / Air

Wind is neither a classical nor an eastern element, although some people mistakenly believe it is. However, in the classical elements, wind most closely corresponds with the element of air. In feng shui philosophy, the term feng shui translated means wind and water. Wind is the movement of air, and wind itself can help to move chi or energy in a gentle and flexible way.

One of the trigrams found on the feng shui bagua and in the I Ching Book of Changes is the Xùn trigram, which in English is called the wind trigram. It is associated with the element of wood and represents wealth and prosperity.

Materials That Represent Wind

Wind socks, kites, and wind chimes can all represent the wind. You can use any of these to facilitate movement of chi or to help cleans negative chi.

Elements Yoga - Air

The element of air is the only thing you can not see. But air is our connection to life. Our breath testifies to the quality of this connection. Our breathing pattern reflects our mood. You certainly know all the phrases:

"The breath hangs," "The air stays away," "The long breath is missing," and so on.

These phrases do not come from somewhere. However, we can learn to breathe consciously and thereby influence our moods. It takes some practice, but it works.

A yoga practice with the theme of air therefore has a meditative aspect with a focus on the breath.

The element of air is also associated with the heart chakra. A yoga practice in the air is characterized by heart-opening exercises and backbends. This also increases the breathing space.

The air is also the element that mediates between the three others, balancing and bringing them into harmony. Therefore, another focus is on balance exercises.

Breathing meditation

Get into a comfortable cross-legged position. Put both hands on your heart and try to focus only on your breath for a few minutes. Take the quality of your breath and watch it first. Then try to let him get deeper. Try to perceive the effects on your mind and body. Stop focusing on your breath and feel for it.
Heart opening flow

Come in a high lung. The right leg is in front. The arms are stretched upwards. With the inhalation come in a slight back bend, open your heart space. With the exhalation stretch out both arms in front of you and lean forward slightly. With the next inhalation you come back in your back. Repeat a few times and pay attention to a smooth flow. Change the leg.


Cold air from the east
In the east, the sun starts its day's run, so the East stands for the new beginning. Spring, as the beginning of the cycle of the year, as well as the girl and the boy as the beginning of the circle of life, are assigned to this direction. The air and the east correspond to the color white.

In the east, the sun starts its day's run, so the East stands for the new beginning. Spring, as the beginning of the cycle of the year, as well as the girl and the boy as the beginning of the circle of life, are assigned to this direction. The air and the east correspond to the color white.

Air is the element of intelligence, creativity, and beginnings. Largely intangible and without permanent form, air is an active, masculine element, superior to the more material elements of water and earth.

  • Qualities: Warm, Moist
  • Gender: Masculine (active)
  • Elemental: Sylphs (Invisible beings)
  • Golden Dawn Direction: East
  • Golden Dawn Color: Yellow
  • Magical Tool: Wand, sometimes sword, dagger or athame
  • Planets: Jupiter
  • Zodiac Signs: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
  • Season: Spring
  • Time of Day: Morning, Sunrise

Indian medicine wheel

The seventh stone of the medicine wheel is dedicated to the element of air symbolized by the butterfly. Beings that are influenced by the butterfly are constantly moving like air, unless they are in a transformation phase (metamorphosis). From the butterfly we learn something about transformation and change .. The butterfly is a symbol of joy and the moment. He reminds us that we should not take life too seriously. Butterflies feed on flower nectar. Incidentally, they pollinate the flower, contributing to the spread of further beauty.
The plant totem for the butterfly clan is the bulbous silk plant (Asclepias tuberosa), also called nodular dormouse. The native in North America on roadsides, mountain and hill slopes, with us not hardy, 60 cm high perennial has a bulbous axis and alternate, oblong-lanceolate, rough-haired leaves.
Azurite has a beautiful blue color that varies from light to almost purple. The azurite can also help with transformations, especially when it comes to the mental area. Wearing or meditating with this stone helps to develop the psychic abilities, to improve the inspiration and to increase the energy.
The color that stands for the element air is a translucent pale blue. Kindness, trust, tenderness, love and peace can be evoked or taught through this color.

Air type: the sanguine and intellectual optimist

Characteristics: rosy cheeks, wet eyes, friendly, cheerful, extroverted, bustling, enjoyable, optimistic, cheerful, a good friend, hovers one meter above the ground, food plays little role for him, conversation is more important and the friends
    Foods that are good for this type: millet, chard, rye, blackberry
    Herbs that are good for this type: marshmallow, fumitory, mullein, rose, horsetail, licorice
    Prone to inflammatory diseases, especially kidneys, heart, joints, appendix, scarlet fever








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Kerstin Ajasha and the Crystal Skulls

Candle magic is a science in itself and absolutely logical. But also leaves a lot of room for interpretation and adjustments.

I learned candle magic in a 6-week course, it was very informative and gave me a new understanding of astrology, colors, oils and shapes.

This is how the skull candles were created that have their own magic.

But from time to time it is necessary that we need something very fast, a solution to a problem is needed. Here is this article:

First, please get fireproof coasters and a piece of paper. In addition thicker candle and a candle extinguisher.

Then please make it clear what it is about. Is it a blockade to be solved, it is something that should be brought into your life. Then it's about when the candle should be burned down exactly.
Release blockages

Would you like to receive something, but there are blockages / resistances?

Then your topic is: release blockages.

For this you write on a note, for example following sentence: I ask for the solution of blockages and resistances for ___________ (for example, my dream trip to the caribbean, my dream house address, my project)

It's best to burn a white candle here. The note comes to the table, the fireproof pad on it, and then the candle. Gladly meditate on it as soon as the candle is lit.

The lighting of this candle should be between full moon and new moon if possible because we want to let go of something, released from our lives. Namely the blockages and resistances.

To bring something into my life

The time to burn a candle is best between new moon and full moon, we want to complete a project and are looking for support, the dream house or the dream trip need financial support etc.

Then you best get a brown coaster. Brown because it is grounded and thus serves the manifestation.

When it comes to finances in any form, then a green candle is absolutely beneficial.

Now you write your wish back on a piece of paper (in the end I would like to add: smoothly, full of joy and lightness so that it is really easy) and then burn off the candle.

Candles are magical now

and should be treated as such. Please only delete the candles with a candle extinguisher, otherwise the magic is lost.

The candles can be disposed of after burning. Best of all you thank the candle for helping you make your project come true.

Crystal skulls love this magic

They like to help you keep the energy. I like to use this kind of magic for house cleaning, earth healing, projects, healing sessions etc. Then the candle is in the middle and the skulls are lined up in a circle.

Questions or recommendations, feel free to comment or send me an email via the contact form

All the love for you

Kerstin Ajasha and the Crystal Skulls

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